Sorry to hear that youre having a hard time. Have you upgraded to ide 0.0.5? that fixes a lot of uploading hassles, and it seems to work with much grater stability. Were actively working on a 0.1.0 release that is our official first stable release. Arduino has been around since 2005, Maple since May, so theres a lot of catching up to do in terms of libraries and stability, but the LeafLabs team and many users are definitely working on it. Currently in the works are things like:
ethernet lib port (arduino ethernet shield)
sdfatlib port (arduino sd card shield)
VGA video demo (this is coming along very nicely, thanks bryan!)
stable i2c/spi API (nearly there)
timers API (nearly there)
and generally making projects with the board, which has the side effect of building libs and making the platform more robust.
The LeafLabs team has been, until recently, pretty consumed with making the base system work, and so demo projects and libraries have taken a backseat. Now that everything is released, we our making it a priority to build some great projects with maple which will not only serve as templates and guides for our users, but allow us to tighten and polish and expand everything as we work with it. I hope you can continue to bear with us as we grow the project, and we look forward to more projects coming in from users.